kandi

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Aug 3, 2007 4:40 PM
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RE: you dont know me but i know you

Kandi,

If that’s who you really are, Arlene just show me the email that you sent her.

This is her Mother, and I would like to get the records straight. You know Kandi, that the fruits of intelligent are often eaten by the mouth of ignorance, and there are an awful lot of ignorant people involve in this mess!

The truth of the matter is, this infamous lawsuit that everyone is up and arms over was never Arlene case. It was my case against Board of Education
long before Arlene ever met Jonathan. When Jonathan and Robin came into the picture they took it upon themselves to take over my case, AGAIN! Not Arlene case. They were under the impression that my daughter was coming into some money,
where that idea came from is beyond me, I OFTEN WONDERED HOW ALL THIS GOT STARTED?
But we been fighting for the last 4 years over something that did not concerns them
or anyone else outside of my immediate family. Even when they contact my lawyer to have case change over to Robin, my lawyer also inform them that Arlene had no case, MY LAWYER MADE IT CLEAR TO HIM THAT IS WAS MY CASE

Now, as far as Jonathan and Arlene’s relationship is concerned, her father and I never approved of the manner in which they got married.
Robin had no right coming to our home and marrying our daughter to his son, without respect to us as her parents or properly asking our permission.
Had he done so perhaps none of this CRAP would have happened, but it appears that their greed for a quick dollar over road their judgment.

We took Jonathan into our home and cared for him when he claimed he had no place to go and this is how he and his family repays us, by bringing other
people into our business, just to prove that their reasoning for doing what they have done is right.

Perhaps you are mature enough to try and understand that this going by and forth, and this he said she said business is nothing short of childless behavior on all parties involved including my daughter.

Just to think all of this started, because I said to Jonathan "I think that it’s time that you find a job to help support your family." he got angry and storms out of my house and bad mouth me! What was wrong with what I said? He’s married with a responsibility and he choose not to support his family like a responsible young man, he choose a childless manner and ran from one house to another house looking to build an army of people to side with him when he knew that he had a responsibility to fulfill to his wife and children. But like a child who was not ready for marriage he ran to his father. If he was really ready for marriage, he would have found a real job, and made every effort to provide for his new family, Jonathan did not do any of these things. He was a child married to a child who also was not ready for marriage. Between the two of them
They could not support a child on their own nor a second child which was on the way.

Next, after Jonathan was arrested and put in prison, my daughter calls me crying on the phone that Robin had raped her and that she had no one else to turn to for help. Tell me one thing, if your child called you and told you that she had just been rape wouldn’t you do everything within your power to help her?
of course you would! I want you to know that it is normal for family and love ones to believe that their family member could not do horrible things,
but the facts remain that some people do things that are sometimes unthinkable, (a.k.a. Robin)

I believed my daughter when she cried for help, I believe that with Jonathan out of the way, Robin took advantage of her and had his way with her when
no one was watching. I believe that he did threaten her "saying that he would kill her and no one would be able to find her body in the woods," if she told anyone. The girl was scared; her husband in jail, there was no one to protect her from him, so she called me. She knew how I felt, and she knew that I had cut her off and had nothing to do with her and the Rivera family.
She and Jonathan had hurt us deeply and all we wanted was to be left alone, plainly put,
she was now dead to me. But that night that she cried out to me for help, I could not turn away from her. I had to help my child get away from her rapist.

Just for the record the Monroe County, police are the ones that picked Arlene up down the road from Robin’s house the night that she left, I was there with them when we got her and a report was made of the incident. All of this can be verified, just call the Monroe County Police. A recording of Arlene and Robin conversation was taken at the police station when Robin repeatly apologize to Arlene for
what he had done to her, this to can be verified by the Monroe County police Department Pennsylvania.

Now we come to the website, e-mail business of dis-crediting Arlene.

These immature games have got to stop! Robin and his family started bad mouthing my daughter saying things that were not true, making things ups that also were not true. Arlene had no recourse but to retaliate by making a website that told her side of the story of what happen in Pennsylvania. whether you and the rest believe her or not I don’t care; Just let the truth be known period.

As I see it, you and your family are getting upset with what Arlene had to say in her own defense on her website only because it is true and can be verified,
by the police, and the court system.

So continue to bad mouth her, via e-mail, website, word of mouth, letter etc.
Just be aware, You and / or your family and friends who are threatening her,

BE FOREWARNED!
should any harm come to her in anyway my lawyer will be made aware of these threats and that every e-mail anyone of you have ever sent or created will be printed, dated and save for proof of the harassment
for the legal authorizes to judge.

Don’t believe me; just continue to do what you are doing.

By the way aren’t there more important things in your life that you can be doing, to make your
life more meaningful than getting involved in other people affairs? I think so, if not you then
have a very sorry and pitiful life.

Just let Arlene and Jonathan handle their own affairs and mind your own.

And I will be telling Arlene to post this email up on her site , so everyone else that are Involve
Could read what I had to say about this.

Arlene’s mother.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: kandi
Date: Aug 3, 2007 11:41 AM

For one thing bitch i told you im not des you are one crazy ass bitch /for one i know every thing thats goes on in my family you can say that im the ghost of the family every thing i said in that email was from me not des, and if you want to know me just look out of your apt i know every thing about you , you stupid ass bitch and lets see if you can remeber me which i doubt from lack of oxygen and when do the girls write with correct spelling.
And what do you mean let every one know about my family. Bitch you are looking for a death wish and i am just waiting. I work of acs you bitch after birth say bye bye to your brother or sister you physco bitch from hell ,and i was the one you talk to about you problems/ remeber you need to check your surroundings .

Kandi